Five Tips a Child Life Specialist Teaches at a Preschool Visit



It is community leader week at my son’s preschool and I was asked to come in and talk about being a child life specialist. I was very excited to visit the kids and also to see how they all act behind the classroom door. My son, in particular is a very energetic, talkative five year-old, so I had to lay some ground rules down before I even entered the room. I have to say, I was quite impressed.

The kids sat in their circle and were excited to see what I brought in my big bag. As I pulled out the giant stuffed monkey, doctor kit and a children’s book, big smiles came across their face along with hands in the air and shout outs of having something similar like that at home.

I spoke about my role and the importance of going to a wellness visit. We went through all the components of a checkup and incorporated parts of the preparation book, along with medical play on Mr. Monkey.

Of course all the kids focus on the shot, so I wanted to leave them with useful information that they could quickly retrieve for the future.

  1. Therapeutic Position– They have a choice in the way they sit during for the procedure. Mr. Monkey did a great job demonstrating.
  2. Deep Breathing– I animated Mr. Monkey crying, jumping and trying to get away from the dreadful shot. The kids began to give their advice on helping him through it, suggesting taking deep breaths. We practiced as a group and used a pinwheel to help calm our bodies and Mr. Monkey’s.
  3. Distraction– They can choose different ways to distract their mind. Counting, deep breathing, watching, looking away or thinking of something else. The kids were great at offering ideas.
  4. Bandage Choice- They can choose to bring their own character bandage or pick what the doctor has to offer. This will give them some control in choice making.
  5. It’s Okay to Cry– I hate when people say, “Big kids don’t cry” this is false and can make children feel even more ashamed and vulnerable. I clearly explained that crying is accepted and way to let people know how you are feeling.

As I began to wrap up, the kids shared all of their scar stories of getting stitches, breaking bones and getting a shot. They were so adorable!


They were all left with goodie bags that included my children’s book, It’s Time For Your Checkup: What To Expect When Going To a Doctor Visita pinwheel and colored bandages!

Have you thought about having a child life specialist visit your child’s school?


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3 thoughts on “Five Tips a Child Life Specialist Teaches at a Preschool Visit

  • Greetings Ms. Shani

    As a internship requirement here in Texas you have to have had experience with children as a pre-req! I had never actually worked with children so I took it upon myself to get a summer job working with kiddos. Surprisingly I found one right away! YAY! Go me! I now work as a summer camp coordinator at a preschool in my community. I am working three days a week with preschoolers and I get to plan their curriculum as well as have indoor field trips with them! Your post about the pre school visit could not have come at a better time! I am so excited to teach the kiddos about child life. Thanks again for being an inspiration!!!! You are great! Ps: keep posting updates on your kiddos, love seeing them! Have a great rest of your week!

    Vanessa Silva Sent from my iPhone


    • Wow, Congratulations Vanessa, that is amazing! First to get through the semester at such high marks and now a wonderful job offer, GO YOU!
      Thanks for your kind words, you are always free to reach out and I can help brainstorm with you on ideas for the kids. You will rock it out this summer!!!

  • My sister is trying to find a preschool for her kids. It is good to know that she should try to find a place that teaches good like skills and how to control their emotions. My nephew has a temper and it would be great if she could send him to a school that will help him learn how to take a step back and calm down.